The story of how a devil was born
Hello everyone!
The parents and the children are never in a mood to
understand the views of the other. This has perhaps become the biggest
controversial thing of the century (I have no idea of the time before this!) I
am not being malicious to the elder generation but indefinite goals of the
parents often lands the child to hurdles. It’s simply just like the potter is
responsible for giving shape to the clay.
Hands up! If you are a kid (even if you are not a kid) and
you believe that the world has expanded with various scopes and infinite
careers and your traditional parents exaggerate filmy lines like:
“Mera
beta engineer banega”
“Jo
mujhse nahi ho saka isse karwa ke rahunga”, etc., etc.,
then it’s
known what you would be going through…. I need not elaborate.
More than filmy lines, I would call these beliefs. And the
road is smooth and slanting downwards still you stick to your parents’ beliefs
and the road turns into a mountain when you oppose it.
Sterner than the decisions are the methodologies that are
implemented. . . .
“TV, mobile, computer, outing, everything banned till you
complete your boards!”
The idea of forceful implementation to gather focus is the
worst idea any parent can have. Now that the kid is not at all in desire to
understand the lines written in the book held in front of him, he tries various
sources to pass the day. There appears then the mobile stolen from the locked
safe, drugs bought through various sources, etc. Porn would even be helpful!
The child does whatsoever he can to divert himself because the reality is not
in his favor.
In my case, phone, internet, computer, TV, outing even
everything was banned since 1st year on the pretext that I will be
allowed only after +2. The little effort I gave for studying well was all the
more depleted. Even during the boards, I hardly cared about my exams and just
founded excuses for recreation. I had got satisfied that I can’t change the
world around me. I strongly believed that I had no future. Despite innumerable
friends, I had gone silent in the midst of the crowd for I thought I was the
only one who won’t prosper in life. So the final decision I took was to commit
suicide. But then I stepped down my decision because what I thought to be the
problem of just myself is also the problem of many others. Regardless of the
cause, the only solution could be found upon striving; I had to live for this.
The very common thing I observed is that all depressed people were living in
loneliness. Peers who perform better are people to be avoided and with this,
parents strand alone the child to be left alone. And thus out of loneliness,
devils are born…
An empty mind is a devil’s
workshop.
Those people who were filled with so much of enthusiasm at
the beginning of the session all are now drained; as if every drop of their
childhood dreams and desires have been squeezed. Wandering aimless, no plans of
what they will do, I see a whole crowd who are vandalized in their enterprise.
As I said, it’s all because of the contradiction between the
beliefs of the parents and their wards. Just to break these beliefs and prove
that the parents are wrong, kids fall into malevolence. Plus the society
comments and give their remarks! It’s not easy to be pervasive here so here a
line of separation increases and the child is reluctant to face the elders for
any opinion regarding the career.
Terms and conditions are necessary along with stress and
peer pressure for developing a child. But limiting every resource for no
purpose and just to satisfy self is completely an immature action; thus I believe
many times the elder generation does the major mistake. After all they too are
humans and to err is to human! So children should never be dependent on anyone
and try to gather understanding climate if parents are not liberal. Its jut as
plain as I can’t say my mom that I love my best friend’s sister and my dad that
I want to drink a bit and remove my tension! (Literally joking! None of my friends have a sister....Anyway the temptation to drink is a reality! ))
If you didn't get anything after reading all, then the only
conclusion I draw is:
Every
child becomes a devil in his journey to success but if he fights regardless of
all fading faculties then the devil dies and a hero is born.
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